Now I was discussing something with many people a few months ago about love in general. Not platonic of course (how much do I ever talk about that lol). In society you have 3 types of people; those who fall in love with everyone who shows them an interest; those who never fall in love with anyone; and those who take time to fall in love with only those certain few who steal their heart.

By looking at the three groups it’s easy to see that true ‘love’ towards a person can only ever really be experienced by those in the last group. They are in love for real, if love does indeed exist as they have spent time to get to know the other person, and found a bond which they can no longer live without. Love can therefore be seen as nothing more than a (selfish) bond between two people. Love in itself is more like an addiction to a drug in that you crave it, miss it when it’s not there, get angry and agressive if you don’t have it, and become paranoid and agitated when it’s not present.

Nevertheless it exists only in the last group as, like I’ve said before, it has been EARNED and is felt by both parties. The first group, however, believe they’re in love with the other person when, in fact, all they’re doing is imprinting on those who show them affection. The people in the first group have low self esteem, probably stemming from childhood and getting picked last at discos etc. When someone shows them even the tiniest bit of affection, they immediately fall head over heels in love with the person and become rather psychotic and jealous almost immediately. Heaven help the person from Group A who falls for someone from Group B or Group C.

The people who have imprinted themselves will want everything NOW and be unable to comprehend why someone from the other groups doesn’t want to commit fully to them or tell them they love them instantly. The only way for true love to ever exist for anyone from Group A is for them to find the engrams that keep making them ‘fall in love’ with everyone and remove them with counselling etc.

Just my ponderings but I believe that nobody can ever truly be in love with someone if they don’t love themself. Those who don’t love themself will ineveitably fall for everyone they meet who shows an interest, and doom the relationship from the start. Nobody, in reality, should be falling in love with anyone else after a week or month unless they’re a hopeless romantic and those from Group A are really just jealous and suspicious all the time so anyone from the other 2 groups won’t even have a chance to let the relationship go anywhere without running a mile.

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